SENIOR CITIZEN SAFETY TIPS
Compared to other age groups, people 65 and over have the lowest rates for most types of crime, with a few exceptions such as purse snatching. We all greatly fear crimes of violence, but these are the ones that happen least often. Most murders and assaults are committed by relatives or friends, not by strangers. Statistics aside, when older people are victimized-even by a minor crime- the effect can be physically, emotionally and even financially devastating.
COMMON SENSE MEASURES CAN PREVENT CRIME
WHEN SHOPPING:
- Don't leave purse unattended in cart (fasten handle to cart if possible)
- "STASH IT, DON'T FLASH IT" ($$$$$$$)
a. direct deposit
b. put money in wallet while still at register
c. if need to, give up wallet, valuables, THEY ARE REPLACEABLE, YOU ARE NOT
- Keep bags out of sight in vehicle, hide in truck or under blanket
- Keep money close to person, not in back pocket
- In the evening, park under lit places, maybe ask for store escort
- Have key ready that you are going to use to get into car
- Carry a whistle with you to alert for help
- Be alert and tuned in to your surroundings. Don't daydream
- Try to walk in a confident, relaxed manner. Make brief eye contact with approaching strangers. This lets them know you are aware of them
- Trust your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable in a place or situation, leave
- Don't burden yourself with too many packages, and don't wear clothing that restricts your
movements.
- If you are out to dinner, don't hand your purse over the back of a chair, keep it next to you.
WHEN DRIVING:
- Always lock your car doors and if possible, keep your windows up. Never leave keys in the
ignition when you leave the car, even for a few minutes
- Never pick up hitchhikers
- If you have car problems, pull over to the right as far as possible. Wait inside the car and be
especially wary of strangers who offer to help. Stay in the car and ask them to call a service truck
or the police. Put on your hazard lights to call attention to you
- Keep your gas tank full and your engine properly maintained to avoid breakdowns
- When you return to your car, always check the front and back seat before you get in
- Always wear your seatbelt
PHONE CALLS:
Don't be flimflammed by a con artist.
Con artists prey on older people who worry about insurance, investments, and maintaining their homes. Regardless of how nice and polite someone may be, be suspicious of any proposal that-sounds too good to be true, has to be kept a secret, or requires immediate cash.
Be especially wary of:
- "Get rich quick" opportunities or schemes for which you have to put up good faith money
- Bargains on home repairs or improvements
- Investments that promise unusually high returns
- Someone claiming you owe money for an item ordered by a deceased relative
- Work at home schemes, door-to-door sales, telephone sales, supplemental health insurance,
miracle cures, glasses and hearing aids at bargain prices from unknown sources, unfamiliar
charities
- Avoid "unclaimed" or "repossessed" merchandise, unless you know the dealer, because you may
be shown pieces that are damaged, seconds, or mismatched, then SWITCHED to something
more expensive
- If you should win a prize, it should never cost you money to collect
- Widows, beware of "obituary ghouls". Swindlers sometimes read obituary notices and send
widows bills for non-existent debt, such as a gift for you the "dear departed" ordered just before
he/she died. DON'T PAY UNTIL YOU'RE SURE
- Read and understand everything before you sign. Don't get nervous because they want you to
sign quickly (this should make your warning light go on). Legitimate business people will wait
- A legitimate salesperson would allow you to call them back. Do so
- Do not give out any personal information about yourself, including where you live, money that is
accessible to you, or credit cards and personal identification numbers
- If you receive and obscene phone call, hang up, you do not have to stay on the phone. If the calls
persist, report to the police. You also may want to keep a whistle next to the phone and blow it
in the caller's ear
- List only your last name and initials, not your first name, in the phone book
FIVE WARNING SIGNS
An offer of something for nothing
A salesman who runs down his product or another
Any contact with vague or tricky wording.
Pressure to sign immediately
Offer a kickback to you that depends on a future event
(such as a purchase by a friend whom you've referred)
DO
BE SKEPTICAL
PAY CASH OR CHECK IF YOU CAN
MAKE SURE YOU'RE DEALING WITH A REPUTABLE COMPANY.
DON'T
PAY UNTIL YOU'RE SURE
SIGN ANYTHING WITHOUT THINKING
BUY WITHOUT COMPARING PRICES FROM OTHER SOURCES.
AT HOME:
- Be sensible about keys. Don't put an address tag on your key ring
- Don't keep large amount of cash at home
- Hide your small valuables in uncommon places, such as inside a shoe, or the bathroom
- Keep emergency numbers for police, fire, and close relatives, by your phone
- Mark valuable property like televisions, VCR's, cameras with a personal identification number
such as California Drivers License or social security. Make a photographic inventory of jewelry
and antiques. Also, make a listing for insurance purposes with descriptions, makes and serial
numbers
- When at home or travelling, if you suspect a burglar has broken into your suite/room, don't go in.
Call the front desk and police immediately.
ADDITIONAL TIPS
- Let family or friends know where you are going and what time you expect to return home, even if it means just leaving a note on your counter.
- Consider you limitations, we all have them, and decide what you are prepared to do if confronted by an assailant.
- Never let strange phone callers know you may be disabled.
- When using public transportation, ride as near to the operator as possible. (Seats near the front are usually reserved for seniors).
- If staying in a hotel, leave the television on, and the "do not disturb" sign on the door, when you leave. Give the appearance that someone is in the room.
- At night in your hotel room, place a chair against the door or buy an inexpensive alarm that attaches to the door.
- At a hotel, do not leave expensive jewelry in the room; use the safe deposit box.
If you are the victim of a crime, no matter how minor or even embarrassing,
report it to the Twin Cities Police Authority tel: 415-927-5150
or use the email button at the top of this screen
It is that time of year when school is almost out and kids will be spending more time at home, unsupervised. If you are one of the millions of households with a home computer, this means that your child may be spending more time "on-line". Parents must be aware that there are a few risks to children using online services that include exposure to inappropriate material such as pornography, and graphic language/suggestive writings, physical molestation, and harassment such as obnoxious or threatening messages.
A computer allows strangers into your house. Children using the "chat" rooms can obtain a false sense of security and are susceptible to requests for personal information about themselves or their families. The other "kids" in the chat room are often really adults, possibly a child predator, trying to lure your child and gain their friendship, eventually ending in a face-to-face meeting.
Following are tips for you and your child on how to enjoy the Internet, while maintaining your privacy and safety.
- Never give personal information to anyone online, such as your address, phone number, parent's names, birthday, school, and hours you get out of school or time your parents get home from work.
- Never send pictures of yourself to anyone you meet online.
- Never respond to messages or bulletin board ads that are suggestive, obscene, threatening, or that make you feel uncomfortable. Just like if this happened in person, it is important children tell their parents about this.
- Never agree to "meet" with someone you have befriended online without your parent's permission. If your parents agree to the meeting, be sure they are with you and it is in a public place.
- Some places on the Internet are ADULTS only. If you find yourself in one of those areas, LEAVE and go to one of the cool places on the Internet for kids. Use the "parental discretion" options where necessary to block these areas.
- There are some programs such at NETNANNY that are commercially available that can block the blatant cites a child may visit.
- Keep the computer in a common area in the house so that you can monitor your child.
- Tell your child that you have the ability to check what web sites they visited by reviewing Netscape or Internet explorer, which keep log files.
- Most importantly, parents need to surf the net with their children. It is important that if your child is computer literate, you need know the basics about what they are doing.
- Notify the police of all attempts by adults to set up meetings with your child.
